Compatibility Guide


Seme/Uke Compatibility || Seme/Seme & Uke/Uke Compatibility


*Seme/Uke Compatibility



Badass Uke - The dramatic yin and yang of this seme and uke work perfectly. The physical aspect of the DFWM Seme balances out the emotions of the Badass Uke and creates an intense, sensually explosive relationship of control and submission, as each of them completes the other.
Clueless Uke - Not a chance in hell. In other words, incompatible.
Flaming Uke - No... Just, no.
Innocent Uke - Another impossible match. The dark intense stare of the DFWM Seme would send the Innocent Uke whimpering for cover... or should if they weren't too innocent to comprehend just what it implied.
Dramatic Uke - Highly Incompatible. The DFWM Seme would have no tolerance or patience for the Dramatic Uke's emotional baggage, and would toss their emo ass out onto the street, leaving the Dramatic Uke confused and unfulfilled.




Sadistic Seme - Blood, violence, and certain death for someone is surely coming. This match is highly incompatible - the Badass Uke, unwilling to play the victim, and the Sadistic Seme, unwilling to relinquish their ungiving control.
Chibi Seme - Intellectually and physically a highly compatible match - the Badass Uke and Chibi Seme could be the best of friends and lovers. Partners in crime, their mischievous, naughty natures complement each other, giving them a thrilling and passionate relationship.
Romantic Seme - These two are on totally separate wavelengths. The Romantic Seme (with their loving and domestic ways) is unable to relate to the Badass Uke's wild tastes and insatiable desires, leaving them both unfulfilled.
Opportunist Seme - Not compatible. The Opportunist Seme usually prefers a gentler, more clueless uke, and the Badass Uke, who is far from innocent, would only smirk at this seme's tricks and pass him by.
Don't Fuck With Me Seme - The dramatic yin and yang of this seme and uke work perfectly. The physical aspect of the DFWM Seme balances out the emotions of the Badass Uke and creates an intense, sensually explosive relationship of control and submission, as each of them completes the other.




Badass Uke - Intellectually and physically a highly compatible match - the Badass Uke and Chibi Seme could be the best of friends and lovers. Partners in crime, their mischievous, naughty natures complement each other, giving them a thrilling and passionate relationship.
Clueless Uke - While this uke and seme would make decent friends, the lack of any physical or emotional chemistry between them would make them incompatible in a romantic relationship.
Flaming Uke - The Flaming Uke's flamboyantly gay behavior brings out the mischievous dominant nature of the Chibi Seme, making theirs a good match.
Innocent Uke - This seme and uke have more of a kohai/sempai relationship - the Innocent Uke looking to the wiser Chibi Seme for advice, though the sometimes teasing advice of the Chibi Seme often leads the Innocent Uke into trouble.
Dramatic Uke - The Chibi Seme wants a partner they can have a good time and match wits with, making the Dramatic Uke incompatible due to their emo and pessimistic nature.




Sadistic Seme - A relationship that should never happen. Although both being dramatic and flashy, the Flaming Uke wants someone to adore them as much as they adore themselves, and wouldn't willingly be dragged down to the groveling, submissive depths that the Sadistic Seme would require of their partner.
Chibi Seme - The Flaming Uke's flamboyantly gay behavior brings out the mischievous dominant nature of the Chibi Seme, making theirs a good match.
Romantic Seme - Possible, but a rare match. The Romantic Seme could lavish all the adoring attention that the Flaming Uke desires, but lacks the excitement and intensity needed to satisfy the dramatic and demanding Flaming Uke.
Opportunist Seme - Although these two could have fun with a little competitive teasing, they are highly incompatible in a romantic relationship - the Flaming Uke's suspicious and jealous streak causing too much conflict with the Opportunist Seme's roaming ways.
Don't Fuck With Seme - No... Just, no.




Badass Uke - Not compatible. The Opportunist Seme usually prefers a gentler, more clueless uke, and the Badass Uke, who is far from innocent, would only smirk at this seme's tricks and pass him by.
Clueless Uke - A perfect match - both of these uke and seme just want to have a good time and don't crave a lot of drama. While the Opportunist Seme may be a bit sneaky sometimes, the Clueless Uke doesn't mind much, and they both provide each other with amusement and companionship.
Flaming Uke - Although these two could have fun with a little competitive teasing, they are highly incompatible in a romantic relationship - the Flaming Uke's suspicious and jealous streak causing too much conflict with the Opportunist Seme's roaming ways.
Innocent Uke - This match is somewhat compatible, as long as the Opportunist Seme balances out their tricky ways with genuine affection for their sweeter partner. It could also be a good learning experience for the Innocent Uke, to gain a little worldly knowledge.
Dramatic Uke - Not Compatible. The Dramatic Uke would be more drama and commitment than the Opportunist Seme would care for, and the Dramatic Uke would not experience the depth of punishment and submission they long for.




Sadistic Seme - Very incompatible. The Clueless Uke wouldn't even know what hit them when they encounter the Sadistic Seme, and fortunately for them, the Sadistic Seme would quickly grow bored, preferring a more dramatic, willing victim.
Chibi Seme - While this uke and seme would make decent friends, the lack of any physical or emotional chemistry between them would make them incompatible in a romantic relationship.
Romantic Seme - With the Romantic Seme's loving, understanding ways, these two would make a good match - the Romantic Seme looking after the Clueless Uke and the Clueless Uke appreciating the Romantic Seme's companionship and attentiveness.
Opportunist Seme - A perfect match - both of these uke and seme just want to have a good time and don't crave a lot of drama. While the Opportunist Seme may be a bit sneaky sometimes, the Clueless Uke doesn't mind much, and they both provide each other with amusement and companionship.
Don't Fuck With Me Seme - Not a chance in hell. In other words, incompatible.




Badass Uke - These two are on totally separate wavelengths. The Romantic Seme (with their loving and domestic ways) is unable to relate to the Badass Uke's wild tastes and insatiable desires, leaving them both unfulfilled.
Clueless Uke - With the Romantic Seme's loving, understanding ways, these two would make a good match - the Romantic Seme looking after the Clueless Uke and the Clueless Uke appreciating the Romantic Seme's companionship and attentiveness.
Flaming Uke - Possible, but a rare match. The Romantic Seme could lavish all the adoring attention that the Flaming Uke desires, but lacks the excitement and intensity needed to satisfy the dramatic and demanding Flaming Uke.
Innocent Uke - The Innocent Uke's sweet nature would bring out some of the best qualities in the Romantic Seme. The loving, protective side of the Romantic Seme would complement the Innocence of their partner, and make this a wonderful relationship.
Dramatic Uke - The Romantic Seme's concerned attempts to help their partner overcome their emotional darkness would work against the Dramatic Uke's very need to be physically and emotionally owned and controlled, making a relationship between the two of them nearly impossible.




Sadistic Seme - An impossible match, as the Innocent Uke would run in fear at the first sight of the Sadistic Seme's evil smirking glance.
Chibi Seme - This seme and uke have more of a kohai/sempai relationship - the Innocent Uke looking to the wiser Chibi Seme for advice, though the sometimes teasing advice of the Chibi Seme often leads the Innocent Uke into trouble.
Romantic Seme - The Innocent Uke's sweet nature would bring out some of the best qualities in the Romantic Seme. The loving, protective side of the Romantic Seme would complement the Innocence of their partner, and make this a wonderful relationship.
Opportunist Seme - This match is somewhat compatible, as long as the Opportunist Seme balances out their tricky ways with genuine affection for their sweeter partner. It could also be a good learning experience for the Innocent Uke, to gain a little worldly knowledge.
Don't Fuck With Me Seme - Another impossible match. The dark intense stare of the DFWM Seme would send the Innocent Uke whimpering for cover... or should if they weren't too innocent to comprehend just what it implied.




Badass Uke - Blood, violence, and certain death for someone is surely coming. This match is highly incompatible - the Badass Uke, unwilling to play the victim, and the Sadistic Seme, unwilling to relinquish their ungiving control.
Clueless Uke - Very incompatible. The Clueless Uke wouldn't even know what hit them when they encounter the Sadistic Seme, and fortunately for them, the Sadistic Seme would quickly grow bored, preferring a more dramatic, willing victim.
Flaming Uke - A relationship that should never happen. Although both being dramatic and flashy, the Flaming Uke wants someone to adore them as much as they adore themselves, and wouldn't willingly be dragged down to the groveling, submissive depths that the Sadistic Seme would require of their partner.
Innocent Uke - An impossible match, as the Innocent Uke would run in fear at the first sight of the Sadistic Seme's evil smirking glance.
Dramatic Uke - Absolutely fated for each other. The Sadistic Seme's unrelenting demands for complete submission from their partner fulfills the Dramatic Uke's need to be dominated and put under the complete control of another, to escape the inner darkness of their own soul.




Sadistic Seme - Absolutely fated for each other. The Sadistic Seme's unrelenting demands for complete submission from their partner fulfills the Dramatic Uke's need to be dominated and put under the complete control of another, to escape the inner darkness of their own soul.
Chibi Seme - The Chibi Seme wants a partner they can have a good time and match wits with, making the Dramatic Uke incompatible due to their emo and pessimistic nature.
Romantic Seme - The Romantic Seme's concerned attempts to help their partner overcome their emotional darkness would work against the Dramatic Uke's very need to be physically and emotionally owned and controlled, making a relationship between the two of them nearly impossible.
Opportunist Seme - Not Compatible. The Dramatic Uke would be more drama and commitment than the Opportunist Seme would care for, and the Dramatic Uke would not experience the depth of punishment and submission they long for.
Don't Fuck With Me Seme - Highly Incompatible. The DFWM Seme would have no tolerance or patience for the Dramatic Uke's emotional baggage, and would toss their emo ass out onto the street, leaving the Dramatic Uke confused and unfulfilled.



*Seme/Seme & Uke/Uke Compatibility



Sadistic Seme - The Sadistic Seme would not survive this relationship/friendship, if it was even possible. These two are natural enemies - the DFWM Seme has no respect whatsoever for the Sadistic Seme's ego and arrogant attitude.
Chibi Seme - The DFWM Seme and the Chibi Seme can tend to be the loners of the seme personalities, and could easily have a friendship based on mutual respect and understanding. Anything further would require more compromise on the part of both these personalities than they are usually willing to give, as the Chibi Seme, despite their laid-back appearance, is not one to submit unquestioningly.
Opportunist Seme - The DFWM Seme, being a straight-forward and honest personality, would have a difficult time tolerating the Opportunist Seme's tendency to play with words and manipulate. These two are social opposites as well - while the Opportunist Seme is perfectly at home with parties, crowds, and attention, the DFWM Seme tends to shun these to become the loner.
Romantic Seme - These two Seme would most likely have no problem having a friendship out of mutual respect, so long as the DFWM Seme's quick temper doesn't offend the Romantic Seme too often. Even a Romantic Seme willing to compromise, however, should take care not to work too hard to make a relationship work, as this personality can tend to do.
DFWM Seme - Two DFWM Seme are not likely to cross each other's paths except on strictly business association. Mutual respect is possible, but if mutual suspicion exists, any bystanders should take cover if these two happen to be in the same room.




Dramatic Uke - These two personalities do share some similarities, and would have a basic understanding of each other, but they also follow two very different paths, craving very different experiences. The Badass Uke being more of a sensual loner, searching for the fire to claim them from the darkness, while the Dramatic Uke wants only to be a slave to another's will.
Flaming Uke - Friendship between these two would be tricky. The Flaming Uke being much too competitive, jealous, and attention craving to have their spotlight stolen from them by the Badass Uke who is naturally skilled in drawing energy around themselves. Maybe not as competitive equals... but a friendship could exist between these two with a more mature sempai type Flaming Uke who could act as an advice giving protector to their sometimes reckless Badass Uke friend ~ of course, Badass Uke will only pretend to listen...
Clueless Uke - A casual friendship could exist between these two - the Clueless Uke just needing to find a fantasy gaming world elaborately real enough to pull their Badass Uke friend in. Both personalities do enjoy gaming, music, art, and food, and could get along quite well ~ the Badass Uke keeping their friend entertained with their sometimes eccentric behavior, and the Clueless Uke providing entertainment with their wealth of knowledge about music, games, and internet.
Innocent Uke - A classic kohai/sempai friendship here. The Innocent Uke should take care though not to be mesmerized by their Badass Uke friend so much that they try to push them into the seme role. Even though a Badass Uke may seem somewhat seme to such a gentle uke, they have no desire (and would never be satisfied) in acting the part of seme.
Badass Uke - Possible trouble could come from mixing two of this personality together. Both understanding each other's dark side so well, but each only becoming more extreme in attitude and risk taking, as if wanting to push the other into taking on a seme role and taking control (even in friendship) ~ which isn't a likely thing for this uke.




Sadistic Seme - An arrogant and overbearing Sadistic Seme does not make friends easily, and a Chibi Seme's revenge is swift and one you never see coming. The only way even a friendship can work is if the Sadistic Seme allows their Flaming traits to take over to let the Chibi Seme rule, which may be hard to do completely for a true Sadistic.
DFWM Seme - The DFWM Seme and the Chibi Seme can tend to be the loners of the seme personalities, and could easily have a friendship based on mutual respect and understanding. Anything further would require more compromise on the part of both these personalities than they are usually willing to give, as the Chibi Seme, despite their laid-back appearance, is not one to submit unquestioningly.
Opportunist Seme - These two Seme are likely to have a casual friendship, and could even have a bit of fun teaming up to prey on uke together. Close Chibi and Opportunist friends are ready to watch each other's back and throw a bit of supportive advice now and then.
Romantic Seme - A Chibi Seme and Romantic Seme could be fast and loyal friends if they shared the same interests. A Romantic Seme friend would probably be able to keep the Chibi Seme out of some (but certainly not all) the trouble the Chibi Seme seeks out for themselves in search of adventure.
Chibi Seme - Two Chibi Seme could have a fun friendship, so long as they take care not to get carried away with any "friendly" competition that could get grudges simmering under the surface.




Badass Uke - Friendship between these two would be tricky. The Flaming Uke being much too competitive, jealous, and attention craving to have their spotlight stolen from them by the Badass Uke who is naturally skilled in drawing energy around themselves. Maybe not as competitive equals... but a friendship could exist between these two with a more mature sempai type Flaming Uke who could act as an advice giving protector to their sometimes reckless Badass Uke friend ~ of course, Badass Uke will only pretend to listen...
Clueless Uke - A friendship between these two would be very possible. The Flaming Uke's desire to talk and entertain would keep the Clueless Uke amused, even if they only half listen to everything their friend is going on about... And as long as the Flaming Uke kept their bossy side reigned in, these two could make a fun and entertaining team.
Innocent Uke - A friendship could exist here, with the Flaming Uke being someone the Innocent Uke could go to for their more mature and experienced advice.
Dramatic Uke - These two are really opposites in personality. The Flaming Uke could certainly make a project out of helping a Dramatic Uke friend, but once they realize it's a lost cause, would move on to something that gave them results.
Flaming Uke - A rare friendship, as two Flaming Uke would likely be very competitive, jealous, and suspicious with each other.




DFWM Seme - The DFWM Seme, being a straight-forward and honest personality, would have a difficult time tolerating the Opportunist Seme's tendency to play with words and manipulate. These two are social opposites as well - while the Opportunist Seme is perfectly at home with parties, crowds, and attention, the DFWM Seme tends to shun these to become the loner.
Chibi Seme - These two Seme are likely to have a casual friendship, and could even have a bit of fun teaming up to prey on uke together. Close Chibi and Opportunist friends are ready to watch each other's back and throw a bit of supportive advice now and then.
Romantic Seme - While these two Seme can have similar tastes, it's possible some misunderstandings can arise. The Romantic Seme is likely to warn uke they know of the wiles of the Opportunist Seme, or the Romantic Seme themselves might fall victim to an Opportunist Seme masquerading as uke if they aren't too careful.
Sadistic Seme - A smart Opportunist Seme should try to avoid the Sadistic Seme's presence if at all possible. Groveling to the "Master" isn't really all that fun...
Opportunist Seme - Two Opportunist Seme are likely to see each other as rivals first and foremost. Even friends may resort to dirty tactics if they find their territory threatened.




Badass Uke - A casual friendship could exist between these two - the Clueless Uke just needing to find a fantasy gaming world elaborately real enough to pull their Badass Uke friend in. Both personalities do enjoy gaming, music, art, and food, and could get along quite well ~ the Badass Uke keeping their friend entertained with their sometimes eccentric behavior, and the Clueless Uke providing entertainment with their wealth of knowledge about music, games, and internet.
Innocent Uke - These two could make good friends (and even possibly more). The Clueless Uke and Innocent Uke would share many of the same interests.
Flaming Uke - A friendship between these two would be very possible. The Flaming Uke's desire to talk and entertain would keep the Clueless Uke amused, even if they only half listen to everything their friend is going on about... And as long as the Flaming Uke kept their bossy side reigned in, these two could make a fun and entertaining team.
Dramatic Uke - No real chance of friendship here. The Clueless Uke wants to have fun, and the Dramatic Uke would just wear them down mentally. Neither would have much understanding of each other, or want to hang out together, and would most likely avoid each other.
Clueless Uke - Clueless Uke very easily get along with their own type, in friendship, and possibly more ~ neither really caring that much who fills what relationship role, as long as they are having a good time.




DFWM Seme - These two Seme would most likely have no problem having a friendship out of mutual respect, so long as the DFWM Seme's quick temper doesn't offend the Romantic Seme too often. Even a Romantic Seme willing to compromise, however, should take care not to work too hard to make a relationship work, as this personality can tend to do.
Opportunist Seme - While these two Seme can have similar tastes, it's possible some misunderstandings can arise. The Romantic Seme is likely to warn uke they know of the wiles of the Opportunist Seme, or the Romantic Seme themselves might fall victim to an Opportunist Seme masquerading as uke if they aren't too careful.
Sadistic Seme - A Romantic Seme may be tempted, in their natural compassion, to "reform" a Sadistic Seme from their cruel and heartless ways. We only suggest this if you have something of a masochistic side. Long-term exposure to the Sadistic Seme may turn a Romantic Seme into a Dramatic Uke.
Chibi Seme - A Chibi Seme and Romantic Seme could be fast and loyal friends if they shared the same interests. A Romantic Seme friend would probably be able to keep the Chibi Seme out of some (but certainly not all) the trouble the Chibi Seme seeks out for themselves in search of adventure.
Romantic Seme - These two could get on very well in a perfect gentleman's friendship. Sunday morning golf outings are likely, and even a romantic relationship of convenience is possible.




Badass Uke - A classic kohai/sempai friendship here. The Innocent Uke should take care though not to be mesmerized by their Badass Uke friend so much that they try to push them into the seme role. Even though a Badass Uke may seem somewhat seme to such a gentle uke, they have no desire (and would never be satisfied) in acting the part of seme.
Dramatic Uke - These two are very unlikely to ever interact willingly...
Flaming Uke - A friendship could exist here, with the Flaming Uke being someone the Innocent Uke could go to for their more mature and experienced advice.
Clueless Uke - These two share many of the same interests (kitty ears and cupcakes anyone?) and could have a lasting friendship.
Innocent Uke - Can anyone say - Best Friends Forever!! ~~<3<3<3




DFWM Seme - The Sadistic Seme would not survive this relationship/friendship, if it was even possible. These two are natural enemies - the DFWM Seme has no respect whatsoever for the Sadistic Seme's ego and arrogant attitude.
Chibi Seme - An arrogant and overbearing Sadistic Seme does not make friends easily, and a Chibi Seme's revenge is swift and one you never see coming. The only way even a friendship can work is if the Sadistic Seme allows their Flaming traits to take over to let the Chibi Seme rule, which may be hard to do completely for a true Sadistic.
Romantic Seme - A Romantic Seme may be tempted, in their natural compassion, to "reform" a Sadistic Seme from their cruel and heartless ways. We only suggest this if you have something of a masochistic side. Long-term exposure to the Sadistic Seme may turn a Romantic Seme into a Dramatic Uke.
Opportunist Seme - A smart Opportunist Seme should try to avoid the Sadistic Seme's presence if at all possible. Groveling to the "Master" isn't really all that fun...
Sadistic Seme - A Sadistic Seme may in fact find great pleasure in bringing another Sadistic Seme under their control, and bringing them to that delicate breaking point between Sadistic and Dramatic...




Badass Uke - These two personalities do share some similarities, and would have a basic understanding of each other, but they also follow two very different paths, craving very different experiences. The Badass Uke being more of a sensual loner, searching for the fire to claim them from the darkness, while the Dramatic Uke wants only to be a slave to another's will.
Flaming Uke - These two are really opposites in personality. The Flaming Uke could certainly make a project out of helping a Dramatic Uke friend, but once they realize it's a lost cause, would move on to something that gave them results.
Clueless Uke - No real chance of friendship here. The Clueless Uke wants to have fun, and the Dramatic Uke would just wear them down mentally. Neither would have much understanding of each other, or want to hang out together, and would most likely avoid each other.
Innocent Uke - These two are very unlikely to ever interact willingly...
Dramatic Uke - Two Dramatic Uke as friends... ? Possible, but we don't recommend it.



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